FACIAL CARE - ZAMU YA WANAUME

Men usually don’t care about their skin. It’s a simple fact. They tend to think they are made from an indestructible material, and that their skin is made of iron. And so, they go on in life, shaving everyday, standing in extreme weather on our vacations, and eating junk food. But hey, our skin is actually deteriorating each passing day, and it’s not a matter of attitude, “machismo”, or whatever you’d like to call it. It’s a matter of health. And in today’s world men facial care is even a matter of social life. You may not know this, but you men, have very sensitive skin. But what is most disturbing is that most men also ignore this, or they do not take proper action.

So what is proper action?

There are certain habits to take in consideration when you start caring about your facial skin care. Here are some tips that will help you get started in men facial care:

* Drink water, a lot. Water is good for overall health; it is a common advice to drink at least 8 glasses of water a day.

* Buy vitamin supplements. To have a healthy skin you should include in your diet multi-vitamins. Particularly helpful to your skin is the Vitamin E.

* Exfoliate your face twice a week. Exfoliation helps removing the dead cells on your facial skin, the result will be a skin free of impurities.

* Protect yourself from the sun. Keep in mind doing it in a healthy way, for example if you’re staying too much time outdoors with a hot weather. Don’t use too much, because sun blockers contain chemicals. Nowadays even some moisturizers have sun protection. Remember this is all men facial care basic stuff. People have different skin types that have their own issues. You should visit your doctor if you notice anything strange in your skin. However this tips will help you in having a healthier, better looking skin. Bottom line is, start taking care. The web has plenty of information regarding these issues and is a good place to start.

LOVEMAKING TIPS

The top 5 female erogenous zones

The neck
Apart from being sexy and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of her body. Softly kissing this area from her shoulder to below her ear (while at the same time massaging it with your tongue will send tingles and pulses up and down her spine. Keep at it and she will be breathing heavily in a very short period of time.

The ear lobes
Sucking ear lobes isn't for everyone. Some girls get the tickles when you do it but others simply adore it. While you're there you can whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Close facial contact is what she likes so this is a good way to do it if you're fed up with kissing on the lips. Also massaging her ear lobes with your fingers from time to time can be very soothing.

The nipples
On a par with the neck for sensitivity, the female nipples become hard and sit up right when stimulated with your tongue. Don't forget to give both breasts even attention and also kiss down in between her breasts as you work your way between both of them. If she hasn't grabbed your head by this stage and held it into her bosom, something's badly wrong.

The belly button
Working your way down her body, the belly button is another area you should stimulate before full intercourse. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will cause vibrations that will vibrate through her reproductive area and begin to stimulate her G spot.

The G Spot
Ah the G spot. This holy grail legend of the female anatomy can be tricky to find. So if the chance arises, ask her if she has already found her G spot and let her point you in the right direction.
As a general guide, most female G spots can be found on the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a 2 pence coin and can be found about 4 inches in.
Extreme caution should be taken when stimulating this area with your tongue or fingers as a female can quite literally lose control of her limbs. Don't be surprised if you get kneed in the face or get elbowed as she moans in ecstasy. It should also be noted that not all females have a G spot, so don't be alarmed if you both can't find it. As you have seen there are plenty of other areas of the female body that can be stimulated in the art of love making in order to help her climax.

Doing a combination of all these things will leave her begging for more and you will be a better lover for it. Experimentation is the key to find out what works and what doesn't as everyone is not the same.
As you can see, a true female orgasm involves the stimulation of her whole body and not just simple penetration. Taking the time to show care and attention to her needs will put you so far above any other lovers, she may have had that you may find it tricky escaping from the bed. I know I have ;-)

I hope this article helps your love life get back on track and that you become better and more confident at making love and not just having sex. Above all else, if you want to become a better lover, ask your partner what they like and what they want you to do to them. Not only will you help them get their rocks off quicker, you'll also show that you are thinking about their needs and they in turn will think about yours. This will create a much better experience than if both parties are concentrating on what each can get out of the experience in a very selfish way.
Until next time.

SPECIAL DEDICATION-LOVE LETTER

I just want one more day with you by Cyndi
I'm so sad and depressed, Is all I want to do is rest. I go to sleep at night But my dreams I just can't fight. I think of you lying in that bed and wonder if there is anything I could have said. I wish you were still here But I know that you are still near. I love you more than you know, I just wish you didn't have to go. I just want one more day with youAnd I know thats what you would have wanted tooI miss you more and more each day, there is so much more we had to say. I know I will see you again but my life is just started to begin.
Every moment spent with you is like a beautiful dream come true...
My favorite place to be is inside of your hugs where it's warm and loving. I Love You! Kiss me and you shall see stars, love me and I'll give them to you.
I love you with everything I am, and more than anyone ever thought possible...
You may not be here with me... But thoughts of you are always in my heart... I Miss You!

From Cydi to Chriss.....

USAFI WA MAENEO MUHIMU- MDAU AENDELEZA MADA YAKE

Jinsi ya kusafisha Uke wako!

Awali nilikuwa nikidhani kuwa kila mwanamke anapaswa na anafahamu jinsi ya kujisafisha ndani ya uke mara tu baada ya kuondolewa bikira (kuanza mahusiano ya kimapenzi na hatimae ngono), lakini nimekuja kugundua ukweli kwamba wanawake wengi hawajui uke unasafishwa vipi?

Baadhi huofia kuwashwa na sabuni na wengine hudhani utokwaji wa utoko ni kawaida hivyo hawana budi kuacha kama ilivyo na badala yake hutumia “pads” ndogo au “wipes” zenye manukato ili kuzuia harufu/shombo ya uke na vilevile kuzuia uchafukwaji wa “vyupi” vyao.

Huitaji kuficha(Bali punguza) harufu ya asilia ya uke kwa kutumia bidhaa zenye mahukato hasa ukiwa na mpenzi wako kwani hiyo harufu ndio uanamke wenyewe na ikikutana na ile ya kiume ndio raha ya kufanya mapenzi na ikiwa mpenzi wako ni “aliyejaaliwa” atakuwa akiipenda harufu hiyo na hubaki akilini mwake hali inayoweza kumfanya akupende zaidi au kutoweza kufanya ngono na mtu mwingine bali wewe.

Hujawahi kusikia wanaume wanashindwa kutoka (date) wanawake wengine baada ya wapenzi wao kufariki dunia? Au mwanaume kushindwa kuendelea na maisha yake ya kimapenzi bila wewe na matokeo yake hata mkiachana lazima atarudi tu kwako….sababu moja wapo ni hiyo.

Kujiswafi ili kupunguza ukali wa shombo/harufu ya uanamke:Utoko hujikusanya ikiwa mwili umetulia (usiku) hivyo hakikisha unajisafisha kila asubuhi kabla hujaanza kuoga.Kwa wale tunaoishi Bongo wengi tunatumia maji ambayo usalama wake ni wa utata, sasa ili kuepuka maambukizo hakikisha maji ya kujisafishia sehemu zako za siri yamechemshwa vizuri. Unaweza kutenganisha maji ya kuoga na ya kusafishia uke ukitaka.

*Kabla hujaguza uke wako hakikisha umesafisha mikono yako vizuri kwa sabuni (ukiweza tumia sabuni yenye dawa) na wakati huo huo pitisha sabuni juu ya uke wako ili kuondoa vijidudu kama vilikuwepo, safisha mahali hapo(juu ya uke kwa maji na hakikisha hakuna sabuni).

*Kisha kwa kutumia kidole chako cha kati, ingiza taratibu pale ambapo uume unaingia, kwa kuanzia huitaji kwenda mbali sana. Zunguusa kidole hicho taratibu huku ukijimwagia maji kwa kutumia mkono wa pili, kisha kitoe (kitatoka na weupe mzito) safisha kidole na maji yako.

*Rudia tena na sasa kiingize ndani zaidi na ukizunguushe tena (huku ukijimwagia maji) na kukitoa utaona “utoko” mwingi zaidi kidoleni, rudia hatua hizo mpaka uhakikishe kidole kinatoka bila weupe(utoko) na utahisi hali ya usafi, hakuna utelezi.

Unapojimwagia maji ukeni huku kidole kiko ndani maji huingia pia ukeni na ndio maana mwishoni kabisa utahisi umesafishika vema kabisa na utoko huo hautotoka tena siku nzima na uke wako hautokuwa na shombo kali kama ambavyo siku zote ambazo ulikuwa hujisafishi.

Kwa wale wanaotumia “bath” au “shower” unafanya kama nilivyoeleza ila tofauti ni kuwa maji yataingia vizuri zaidi ikiwa unapata “bath” hivyo hakikisha “bath” sio ya kuchangia, maji ni salama(safi), usiweke sabuni (bath cream) au bidhaa yoyote yenye kemikali kwenye “bath” yako ili kuepuka matatizo ya kiafya na maambukizo mengine.

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